Made my decision: dropping out of choir because my husband really got my attention as we discussed why it has been such a "much ado about nothing" situation for me. I am at peace. Now to return the music to a couple of gals who were kind enough to get me involved in the first place and who will be very upset about losing a member. But, I need to do this.
So you lucky people...no more wingeing blogposts about this subject. You will be as excited as I am to be done with it! hahahaha