I seem to have a new "ministry" these days....sort of an elderly "influencer" sort of thing. hahaha
A few days ago I posted about a friend getting inspired to do some overdue wall washing because I had posted one day about some housework here. Then on Sunday another such event occurred when a much older friend of mine, who has been in pain for months with a deteriorating knee and hip, came up to me in church and informed me that she had been putting off purchasing a cane for herself...a "stick" as she calls it.....until she saw me using mine at church a few times. She decided that using a cane can still be sufficiently "elegant", (and she is a marvellously fashionable clothes horse at the age of 88), after watching me use mine and realizing that just because a woman is using a "stick" for health reasons doesn't mean that woman has to stop dressing well, doing her hair as usual, putting on makeup and whatever "negative else" she was formerly associating with cane useage. SO, last week she went to her doctor and got a form to purchase a proper medical cane from the Health Aids department at her pharmacy, found a cane she likes and purchased it. I am SO PROUD of her. She has struggled terribly with the idea of aging and mobility issues but seems to be understanding that there are helps available and is now not as loathe to start using them. YAY!! So, my days of public ministry may be long over, but it is really fun to know I can still help people in all kinds of little ways. I feel less useless when things like this occur. Thank you Lord that my friend got some badly needed help.
Yesterday was a very good day of helping as well. Friends from church were having a family funeral and needed help with ushers and kitchen workers. My husband is very good at ushering, so while he was doing that I was working with other ladies in the kitchen getting set up for the reception afterward. It was a lot of fun, cleaning up afterward went quickly with so many helpers and my husband and I ended our service by delivering all the tablecloths to the dry cleaner on our way home. So happy there was time to help at the funeral during this very busy week of getting ready to travel...especially when I seem to be so far behind!!
I am discovering new things about my meal times that I think could help my blood sugar and weight considerably, BUT it is going to be difficult to implement them on a regular basis!! Prayers for me as you are so led, that somehow I can make this possible new meal schedule work!!
Yesterday we had to be at the church to get set up right as I should have been eating lunch, so I knew I would have to do something different on the scheduling for my meals. I decided finally that I could make myself wait and eat a very late breakfast and then have Lupper after we were done at the church. As it happened my husband had a half dozen apples that needed to be used, so he decided he would make a small phankuken for us for our "brunch". At 9am I had a glass of milk...only 1 carb unit, because I was getting hungry. By the time my husband was finished repairing a mistake he made with his recipe, it was 11:30am by the time I actually ate anything. Other than feeling a bit of low sugar tiredness I was fine and enjoyed my 2 carb serving of the phankuken. We were at the church by 12:30pm and left again around 4pm. When the family had been served their reception food, I nabbed a couple of strawberries for myself because I wasn't sure how long we would be there. We were both extremely hungry by the time we dropped off the tablecloths for cleaning, so headed over to Bonzzini's. My husband enjoyed his 8 inch pizza and caesar salad while I ordered a chicken wrap. When our food arrived I pulled the chicken and salad out of the whole wheat flour wrap and gave the wrap to my husband to wrap around his pizza slices....He likes to wrap pizza slices in something else so he doesn't end up with toppings and tomato sauce all over his hands and shirt. hahaha I ate the large amount of chicken salad filling along with part of the side of onion rings...again my husband is so happy to assist me in finishing what I can't eat. haha At 9:30pm I ate one slice of whole wheat bread with a slice of low fat cheese and a half carb unit of yogurt. I slept better last night than I have in several weeks of trying to keep going on my "needed" 3 meals a day, day after day after day after week after week and knowing I have just not been feeling perfectly fine for a couple of months, despite my blood sugar staying stable and within range. I got looking back at my food diary and realized that eating my evening meal between 4 and 5pm with a later breakfast in the morning, between 10 and 11am and a slice of bread and cheese in the late evening has produced this same result each time. So now....how do I stick to a routine of brunch and lupper as a daily habit long term? I am looking very much forward to figuring that out! Having lots of leftovers in the refrigerator has helped with that in the past, so I think once we are home again I will return to my former habit of doing a large cook on either Sunday afternoon or Monday and then having lots of leftovers for the following two or three days. We shall see how it goes. It may be easier in NYC because my son and late breakfasts with earlier dinners and no discernable lunch all go together and have for years.
Of course since I am already behind on getting ready to go, now all manner of other things are getting set up this week that I really can't say no to very easily. I just got a call from a senior friend who desperately wants to have a short visit with me before I leave. So, since I am going to be fairly near her place when I have my hair cut right after lunch I will stop in for an hour to see her. I can't say no. I thought I was ahead of the game by cancelling my weekly coffee visit to give myself more time to get packed up, but then my cousin...the only one of many who is in touch with me regularly.....called to say she will be in town tomorrow and could I pick her and her sister in law up so we could go out to dinner together tomorrow evening. Again, I can't say no...she is family, one of the few I have left that I have a real relationship with. hahaha My husband has had more phone calls from the hospitals in the past two weeks with Anglican patients wanting pastoral care than any of the other priests have had in several months of carrying around the chaplaincy emergency phone for their "tour of duty". hahaha He has another pastoral visit tomorrow afternoon....naturally....hahaha. It never rains but it pours.
I am grateful that I was able to get to the bank right as it opened this morning to get done what needed to be done before we can go away. I am grateful that the weather is wonderful this week...windy of course, but that is just the way it is on the prairies, particularly during seasonal changes. I am grateful that my decisions for clothes to take south are coming together nicely. I am grateful I was able to start the laundry today and will get it done around the haircut and visiting my friend so I can iron tomorrow morning. I am grateful that there have been no conflicts, yet anyway, that have arisen regarding when each of us needs to use the car this week. I am grateful that my new beautiful yellow agate necklace arrived today from Healing Earth Works in Victoria and that my husband was here to sign for it. I am grateful that I was able to spent 2 consecutive hours on my feet for the funeral reception yesterday with very few repercussions.
My prayer request is for my husband today: he has not been able to find his prescription reading glasses for the past ten days or so. He cannot remember for sure where he last used them so has been relying on some drug store cheapies to keep him going, but I am not sure that is going to keep working well for him for much longer. We have contacted all but one of the places he has been to away from home over the past two weeks and no one has seen his glasses. Tomorrow morning he will have the opportunity to return to the one other place they MAY have been left, but it is possible they will not still be there. We continue to think they are simply lost somewhere in our suite, but we have torn this place apart searching and nothing yet. Sigh....always something when we are trying to get away.
Okay, time to change the laundry over. Gotta run. Love you all. Thanks for your prayers and concern and care.