Sunday, December 31, 2023

Leading Up To Epiphany

 The Journey of the Magi by T.S. Eliot

 

"A cold coming we had of it,

Just the worst time of the year

For a journey, and such a long journey:

The ways deep and the weather sharp,

The very dead of winter."

And the camels galled, sore-footed, refractory,

Lying down in the melting snow.

There were times we regretted

The summer palaces on slopes, the terraces,

And the silken girls bringing sherbet.

Then the camel men cursing and gambling

And running away, and wanting their liquor and women,

And the night-fires going out, and the lack of shelters,

And the cities hostile and the towns unfriendly

And the villages dirty and charging high prices:

A hard time we had of it.

At the end we preferred to travel all night,

Sleeping in snatches,

With the voices singing in our ears, saying

That this was all folly.


Then at dawn we came down to a temperate valley,

Wet, below the snow line, smelling of vegetation;

With a running stream and a water-mill beating the darkness,

And three trees on the low sky,

And an old white horse galloped away in the meadow.

Then we came to a tavern with vine-leaves over the lintel,

Six hands at an open door dicing for pieces of silver,

And feet kicking the empty wine-skins.

But there was no information, and so we continued

And arrived at evening, not a moment too soon

Finding the place; it was (you may say) satisfactory.


All this was a long time ago, I remember,

And I would do it again, but set down

This set down

This: were we led all that way for

Birth or Death?  There was a Birth, certainly,

We had evidence and no doubt. I had seen the birth and death,

But had thought they were different; this Birth was

Hard and bitter agony for us, like Death, our death.

We returned to our places, these Kingdoms,

But no longer at ease here, in the old dispensation,

With an alien people clutching their gods.

I should be glad of another death.

Ringing Out The Old Year, 2023

 In Memoriam, A.H.H.. (Ring Out Wild Bells)

by Alfred Tennyson

 

Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky,

The flying cloud, the frosty light;

The years is dying in the night;

Ring out, wild bells,

and let him die.

 

Ring out the old, ring in the new,

Ring, happy bells, across the snow:

The year is going, let him go;

Ring out the false, ring in the true.

 

Ring out the grief

that saps the mind,

For those that here we see no more,

Ring out the feud of rich and ;poor,

Ring in redress to all mankind.

 

Ring out a slowly dying cause,

And ancient forms of party strife;

Ring in the nobler modes of life,

With sweeter manner, purer laws.

 

Ring out the want, the care, the sin,

the faithless coldness of the times;

Ring out,

ring out my mournful rhymes,

But ring the fuller minstrel in. 


Ring out false pride

in place and blood,

The civic slander and the spite;

Ring in the love of truth and right,

Ring in the common love of good.


Ring out old shapes of foul disease,

Ring out the narrowing lust of gold;

Ring out the thousand wars of old,

Ring in the thousand years of peace.


Ring in the valiant man and free,

The larger heart, the kindlier hand;

Ring out the darkness of the land,

Ring in the Christ that is to be.


Saturday, December 30, 2023

Blue, Blue The Sky Is Blue....La, La, La.....La, La, La, La, La...

What an absolutely perfect, beautiful, warm, breeze-free, sunny, blue sky day!!!  Wow.....I did take a little walk this afternoon after first driving over to a friend's place for a visit and realizing that ALL the ice on the sidewalks 'twixt her place and mine are completely dry now...no ice patches, not even any pavement frost to make walking difficult.  If I had only realized that before I drove over there, I could have had a grand walk.  Oh well, I did get A walk later on, shorter but just as sweet.  

Our dear friend Cee is still in hospital after being admitted a couple of days ago with chest issues and weakness.  He has blood clots in his lungs, possibly some infection induced inflammation as well and yesterday there was concern that he might have a blood clot in his foot. Thankfully that is NOT the case....hallelujah!  Another answer to our prayers is that yesterday he was able to see the specialist who initially diagnosed his blood cancer a few years ago and who is very, very helpful and kind to Cee.   We pray more can be done to help Cee in the coming days. He is supposed to be meeting with his pain specialist early next week and so the prayer is that there can be more done to help him deal with the bouts of neuropathy pain when it hits him, then soon is his next plasma replacement treatment that hopefully is stopping the progress of the neuropathy.  He is suffering greatly, yet is still able to enjoy a sense of humour despite it all.  Nan is hopefully going to have a chance to get some rest during the days he is in hospital. Praying she can sleep at night so she has enough strength to endure each day.  Thank you all again for praying for these dear friends.

Hopefully we will be able to go to church in the morning and greet many friends with a hearty "Happy New Year"!  According to the bulletin for the service it should be an interesting one, with lots of our favourite Christmas carols listed. YAY!  My husband and I will leave our Christmas tree  and cards up on display until Epiphany and then our place will seem half empty and rather dull to look at once again. hahaha Hey, what am I saying?? With all the paintings and photographs we have on our walls, "dull" doesn't really describe the visuals in here! hahaha  "Overcrowded" perhaps? But "dull"? NEVER!! hahaha

Friday, December 29, 2023

Such A Looooong Week, It Seems!

For some reason this week has seemed endless, but that is a GOOD thing!  We have really been enjoying it....such a great balance between socializing, home chores, interesting meals at home and away, amazing weather, resting, reading, tv movies, both of us feeling pretty healthy all week!  For all these things we are grateful.

We were off to a happily slow start this morning, but managed to get out to several different grocery stores to pick up the odds and ends we seemed to run out of quite suddenly.  My husband is going to prepare a nice charcuterie for us on New Years' Day, so I am quite looking forward to that.  Our Christmas money is now utterly and entirely spent and we are more than satisfied with everything we have been able to purchase.  Today we used the last of it for a delicious meal at Famoso: we each had a 7 inch pizza with a bowl of their delightful tomato bisque.  They make a nice pizza and all the ingredients seem fresh...at least certainly fresher than at some restaurants around here.  I settled for a very plain pizza, a Margherita consisting of thin crust, fresh basil leaves, olive oil, Grana Padano and Fior di Latte.  Yum, yum!!

We looked, at every venue that carries them, for Tong peanuts, but all we found were gaping gaps on the grocery store shelves designated to carry them.  There hasn't been a fresh order in since sometime before Christmas, so my husband is very unhappy as they are his favourite brand.  Soon....soon...there will be more.  All the stores had open spaces and I suspect there aren't many deliveries of new product between Christmas and New Year.

We arrived home fairly early in the afternoon, just as the streets were crowding up with vehicles filled with people trying to get everything needed for this New Year's weekend.  It was lovely to be driving into our parking lot about the time the rest of the city seemed to be driving about in a huge rush on the streets.  I am guessing that with this continuing warm weather the bus stop outside my bedroom window will be a hub of hollering and other somewhat drunken activity with many people waiting for the free bus ride home that the city provides on New Year's Eve....more power to the city. I can handle the shouting and other noise if it means those people are not behind the wheel of a vehicle in their condition.

Tomorrow I will either clean house or take a full day to read and watch movies: three guesses what I will opt to do and the first two don't count, teehee!

Thursday, December 28, 2023

Walkin' In A (Not Quite) Winter (Not Quite) Wonderland!

What a wonderful day....sunshine, dry, barely breezy, +4C, coffee with a friend this morning, an afternoon to myself to do the ironing while my husband attended a couple of visits and meetings with his friends, and BEST OF ALL, a bit of a walk outside!  Okay, it was only over to the post office and grocery store, but still...walking outside so safely and dryly on December 28th is nearly unheard of around here.  Days like today make me so happy....joyful, even!! Walking in shoes instead of winter boots....a near miracle if ever I have seen one! Seeing pavement frost in spots, rather than ice in large patches, lifts my spirits like nothing else in the winter.

The realtor contacted us this morning to ask about showing us an aged condo....well built, but in need of substantial and expensive upgrades.  I think we will just hang on for a few more weeks to see if any suitable stand alone houses come onto the market again, but I suspect that won't happen for another month or two, more likely if the interest rates drop...at which point there may be a bit of a frenzy of selling, plus bidding wars among the potential buyers.  So glad we are both finally at peace about just waiting it out.  We don't have to buy a house, it would just make more sense than continuing to rent at the exorbitant new rental prices happening all over the country.  Waiting on the Lord is just fine and the best thing to do anyway.

Cee is in need of prayer today.  He has been feeling too weak to move much, today had to go by ambulance to hospital with chest congestion and other symptoms. The ER doctor could find nothing with the level 1 and 2 tests, so has admitted him until they can find out where a possible infection may be lurking.  I found out he has also been suffering very bad neuropathy pain again. Are his treatments not working any more?  What the heck is going on?  He and Nan are very discouraged, but are still faithful to God despite the last week of difficulties.  Cee's symptoms are becoming rather frightening. Please pray for continued courage and hopeful spirits for them. Thank you.

My GERD is getting easier to deal with. The meds are certainly helping.  Learning what sets off the symptoms is helping.  There can be NO caffeine or alcohol or anything remotely resembling a sweet bite of dessert, time of day for taking certain medications had had to change....as I continue to refine my daily routine it is getting easier to keep the needed schedule.  Today I reintroduced the Omega 3's for my dry eye and no immediate reaction.....I will see if the GERD symptoms recur after a few days of them.  Looking back I am realizing just how long ago this condition began to show up!  I noticed in the early spring when I started taking walks out of doors after the winter that I was kind of short of breath, but other than confirmation from the doctor that my heart murmur is worse than it used to be....old age does tend to weaken the heart valves and they can get a bit sloppy in their function sometimes.....she couldn't find anything else going on with my heart that would cause upper chest discomfort when I was exerting myself. After all the heart tests I had at the hospital in November, getting the confirmation that it was GERD causing my issues rather than my heart, I started looking back and seeing how the symptoms began slowly to build over the summer and early autumn.  Apparently I was suffering from GERD for many months before the symptoms became specific enough to be attributed to the condition.  Good to know!  It explains a number of things that I experienced in the weeks prior to diagnosis.  Aaaaah, old age....what bliss! hahahahaha

Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Oooh, She's Got It BAD For The Boy! HAHAHA!!

 I am still chuckling over our call with our son and his girlfriend last evening.  SHE is so proud of HIM!! The way he is taking care of his health issues, his fantastic attitude about being laid off work for a couple of months, his incredible work ethic during this layoff as far as getting to his own studio to paint every day for hours and hours, even his creativity in wrapping her Christmas gift (compost bags, tissues he put little drawings on, and shiitake mushrooms....a true glimpse of our son's sense of humour...although, as his mother I would have assumed he was just too cheap to go out and buy proper wrapping paper), all seemed to impress her mightily. hahahaha  To see our son the object of such love and affection from such a wonderful woman is an answer to prayers we have prayed for many years, during and after a series of girlfriends who certainly didn't have HIS best interests at heart.  Finally, as he gets closer to mid life, he has met this wonderful woman who is bringing out the best of him every year that they have been together.  We are so grateful to God for this blessing in his life.  

We laughed and laughed when we saw the photo of his gift wrap.  He learned to do crazy wrapping jobs like that from an old family friend who gave him a gift each Christmas when he was a child, always wrapped in odd ways. One year the fellow taped 50 loonies onto a long piece of adhesive and it had to be pulled slowly out of an oddly shaped box.  Another year he put two 50 dollar bills between two pieces of wood and our son had to figure out a way to pry the pieces apart to get his gift. So, he learned such fun silliness from an expert.  What would you think if you received a gift wrapped this way? hahaha

Too funny! His Silly Wrap mentor, "Uncle Bob" will be so proud!


Monday, December 25, 2023

A Happy Enough Christmas Day!

 It was very nice not to have to get up and rush off somewhere this morning.  We could eat a relaxed breakfast and enjoy some down time before heading off to the delicious turkey dinner provided by our friends.  While there we shared table with a newcomer to our church who we hadn't had opportunity to meet properly before, so that added to the fun.  The meal was fabulous, very traditional and my favourite dish was the fried brussel sprouts with chopped bacon and a light coating of maple syrup.  My mother used to make that dish years ago and what lovely memories eating it brought up.  Yum!  Yum!!  The dessert was fabulous and not very sweet, so I was able to have a bowl of it: multiple thin layers of crumbled low sugar gingerbread, pure whipped pumpkin and unsweetened whipped cream.....ooooh delightful.  Our host has even worse diabetes than I do, so he can't have sweet desserts either.  It was such a pleasure to be able to enjoy a fairly decent sized serving.

Driving around the city on such a sunny day was pretty encouraging about life in general.  I am not missing the bitter cold that usually arrives this time of the winter.  I expect it will be arriving sometime in January and we may have a miserable February and March, but that is just fine.  The worst of the winter weather will be a shorter period of time than usual, which has helped me greatly this winter in dealing with depression and general discouragement about the current world wide situation.

We had a loooooooong Zoom session with our son and his girlfriend tonight.  They are tired after having such a busy Hanukkah and Christmas season, but seemed content to chat with us.  Talking to them always encourages us, brings us feelings of peace and contentment.  We made a few simple plans for our time together in Vancouver in a few weeks' time.  Oooh, exciting stuff is set to happen.

I am so grateful we have no plans made for Boxing Day tomorrow.  I want to pot around home doing laundry, drop some mail at the post office and be prepared either to go racing off hither and yon or to open my doors to drop in visitors should any spontaneous social events arise.  I like being busy, but it is also nice not to have every minute of every day planned out a week or more in advance.  We are finally getting to know a number of spontaneously acting friends here, so that makes for fun surprises some days.  YAY!  I have so many medical appointments in January that I plan to enjoy every social event in the meantime!

Hope you all had a very Merry Christmas!

Sunday, December 24, 2023

Christmas Eve Joy!

 It has been a lovely, relaxing Christmas Eve!  

We began the day with a bit of a sleep in, always a treat, then we attended the morning service at our church.  It was so much fun to see the excitement in the faces and hear it in the voices of the children in the congregation.  

This afternoon was chillin' time after a relaxed lunch of my husband's home made aloo gobi and beef korma.  We listened to more Christmas music and watched the lights twinkling on our little Christmas tree. Then we went for a late afternoon walk.  We walked about a quarter of the way around the lake, as most of the ice on the pathway closest to home had melted.  If the wind hadn't been so bitterly cold we would have taken a longer walk, but it was still so great to be outside walking anywhere at all...on DECEMBER 24th!!!  Unreal!  Loved it.  A couple of neighbours dropped by with Christmas treats:  Christmas stix mix, packs of tea bags and a Ukrainian rolled bread stuffed with poppy seeds and raisins!! OOOOH YUM!

After dinner we watched our church's Christmas Eve service, giggling like mad as the kids portrayed the annual nativity scene.  Poor Baby Jesus was lying in a box with the straw piled so high that it looked more like a sacrificial altar! hahaha (When the play was over and all the young actors had departed, poor baby Jesus got left behind on his pyre of straw looking quite forlorn for the rest of the service!)  One of the two "sheep" got fed up less than a minute into his dramatic debut and wandered off the platform never to be seen again.  The other sheep was very sheeplike and didn't stop gamboling about for the entire length of the service.  Fortunately he managed not to knock over any of the shepherds or the angel, but he came awfully close!  Two of the shepherds had a bit of a tussle with their crooks as they attempted to swat each other in the head with them and a third shepherd got bored, so he turned his crook rounded side down on the carpet and spun it around  and around for awhile, then realized there was some kind of insect crawling on the carpet, so he stomped up a storm until he was satisfied he had killed it dead!  This same tiny shepherd had somehow entwined a tiny Santa's hat into his hair...a bit of a ludicrous look for a shepherd attending the birth of Christ, but it was darned cute watching the miniature hat bobbing up and down as he stomped the bug.  hahahaha  I have no idea what else was happening in the service during the kids' time on the podium. They were just so entertaining!  

Once that service ended it was time for my husband to hie away to the Anglican service he wanted to attend and I had a lovely evening frittering away my time watching old movies on tv.  Victor/Victoria amused me for most of the time he was away.  I have a 1949 Robert Mitchum film to watch tomorrow afternoon after our noon time turkey dinner.

My husband didn't get home from church until about 10pm, waltzed in the back door very happily and told me to grab my boots and coat because he was taking me on our annual Twinkle Tour!  Many of the streets around the Anglican church he was at tonight have fabulous outdoor Christmas light displays, so we had a blast going up and down the streets....someone had a string of white and PURPLE lights!!  I have never seen purple lights at Christmas before so it was fun to see something unusual.

A lovely day was had by us both. Thank you Lord!


Saturday, December 23, 2023

Avoiding the Crowds Of Last Minute Holiday Shoppers?

We woke up in time this morning to get going fairly quickly on our errand run, hoping we were early enough to avoid the throngs of last minute holiday shoppers! I don't remember the last time my husband rose so early and was so eager to go on errands immediately after a quick breakfast.  I could hardly keep up with him so he was waiting a few extra minutes for me to find my coat and boots.  Off we tore!

We completed our errands rather rapidly!  The "crowds" at the various stores we went to were actually non-existent!  It was like shopping on a typical Monday morning....where the heck were all the people we were expecting to see?  Have they emerged later in the day and we lucked out by being so much earlier in getting ourselves out there?  Quite a surprise!  Hopefully, for the sake of the retail stores we were in, their business picked up as the day progressed.  Mind, you we were home by 10:15am, so the time of day may have given us a false sense of how many or how few shoppers were wending their way storeward.  I wish all the shoppers well.

I am sitting here writing this post with a musical Christmas card beside me.  We received it a few years ago from friends in Tokyo.  It has snippets of 16 songs and carols, from Ave Maria to Santa Clause Is Coming To Town, to Silver Bells to Amazing Grace!  As each one ends I press the button for the next little ditty. It is quite relaxing.  The pop up houses on the front of the card light up with each note played and the window on the front of each little cardboard house shows a Christmas scene: Santa coming down the chimney, families enjoying a Christmas meal together, wrappers of presents, children tucked up snugly in their beds, fireplaces decorated by hanging stockings...very cute and fun to see and listen to from year to year.

While no snow is forecast, the sky this afternoon is becoming increasingly cloudy, but those clouds do not appear to be holding any snow flakes.  We shall see how Christmas presents itself over the next couple of days.

I am REALLY enjoying having a few days off from dealing with the realtor and the frantic rushing about to view houses and condos that thus far have ended up NOT being "the one" for us. Thank you Lord for the Christmas Break!

Friday, December 22, 2023

Quirky Stuff Of Today!

 Soooooo.....I knew that I was supposed to be taking a carton of chili to elderly friends at 1pm today, but close to lunchtime I couldn't shake the idea that I should also take them a batch of cookies.  Those of you who know me know that I don't bake as a rule, apart from banana loaf and almond cake because they are so easy and I don't USUALLY screw them up.  I am not good at making cookies as they are usually hard as hockey pucks, or I leave out a key ingredient...baking cookies is not my forte!

However, since the thought of making cookies became unshakable, I decided at 11:45am that I would indeed try to bake some.  It took awhile to locate my cookbooks....tells you how often I use them doesn't it?  Eventually I stumbled upon my 1975 copy of recipes from the Winnipeg branch of the Jewish Pioneer Women organization, frantically searched through the cookie recipes and noticed one for peanut butter spice cookies I hadn't noticed in the past 48 years!  Easy peasy, so I grabbed a mixing bowl and other baking accoutrements, the ingredients, including the last cup of peanut butter in the cupboard....thankfully the recipe only calls for a cup....and I went to work.  I proudly placed my good looking and smelling cookies onto baking sheets and placed 2 dozen of them into the oven, which I actually remembered to pre-heat this time. I set the timer for 12 minutes and thought all would be well.

However, at the exact same time as I was making cookie batter, wedged onto a teensy strip of countertop,  my husband was using the rest of the kitchen space for cooking his own batch of food...aloo gobi and korma.  Somehow, as he was moving the pots and pans about on the stove top, either his hand or one of the pot rims hit the dial for the oven temperature control and, completely unnoticed, boosted the oven temperature from 375F to 450F!!!  I checked on my cookies at the 8 minute mark because it seemed there was a rather strong odor emanating from the oven and it wasn't a pleasant one.  There were my cookies, completely blackened on the bottom and starting to smoke!!  My husband grabbed the oven mitts, while grabbing the back door knob at the same time and wrenching it open with one hand while he maneuvered the cookie trays out of the oven with the other and tossed them outside on the back porch until the trays cooled down. I didn't have to worry about the cookies sliding off the trays onto the filthy deck because they were stuck like glue.  Sigh.....'twas ever thus with me and baking....BIG SIGH!!

I was very tempted to cry, but my husband assured me that if I just turned the heat back down and waited a couple of minutes, I could put the last tray of a dozen cookies into the oven and they would be just fine.  I wanted to just turf the rest of the raw cookies out onto the grass and let the rabbits have a treat, but I gave in and tried baking the last dozen. Fortunately they turned out wonderfully well, so I had some decent cookies for my friend who knows my baking history, so was absolutely delighted when I showed up with edible cookies.  Aiiii yiiiii.....

When I returned home after an interesting visit with my very much mobility compromised friend, (where we spent 90 minutes moving our visiting space from room to room as her long missing in action house keeper had shown up unexpectedly and was doing her whirling dervish routine from one room to another), there was my husband sitting in the kitchen with a sharp serrated knife scraping the burnt bottoms and sides off the first batch of cookies that he managed to pry off the cookie sheets.  He felt SO badly for inadvertently ruining them that he decided to try to salvage what he could.  SUCCESS!!  I was able to freeze all but one of the original two dozen cookies!  What a job!  It took him the better part of an hour, carefully scraping the burnt cookie bottomes....what a guy!!!  Thank you dear husband....you have no idea how impressed I am!

My doctor's appointment today was an absolute hoot!!  It was so hilarious I could hardly believe it. hahahahahaha  My doctor arrived at the clinic well before my appointment time. I was her first patient of the day.  I sat in her exam room from the time of my appointment until about fifteen minutes later.  hahahaha I could overhear her in her office next to me.  She was trying out some of the new makeup that had just been delivered by another staff who sells make up at home parties.  My doctor was trying on eye shadow and mascara and discussing how she looked with the deliverer of the goods.  By the time she emerged from her office she was looking quite gorgeous, but I had trouble keeping my shoulders from heaving with laughter.  Wearing make up is new to her and as she discovered what the various colours could do to effect her appearance, she was more delighted with each colour she tried.  I laughed and laughed and laughed at this overheard conversation coming through the adjoining wall.

When she finally made her way to the exam room....no other patients were waiting, only me....she was all dressed up in the most beautiful "hippy" style dress and boots, her hair out of its usual bun and hanging down her back, her face looking impeccable in its new coat of "paint".  She looked in and saw me and said, "Oh good. It is you!  I will have time to go and get a coffee."  Off she toddled to the staff coffee station, returning about five minutes later after showing off her make up to other staff she passed in the hallway. By this time I was so enjoying her delight in the discovery of makeup that I wasn't at all upset. I was too busy trying to keep the laughter contained!!  Anyway, she finally got to my needs and all was well.  She disappeared from the room as soon as she was done doing my testing, but it took me a few minutes to get myself put back together to leave.  As I opened the door of the exam room, I nearly tripped over her as she was preparing to enter that same room with another staff.  "Oh, I am so sorry, I thought you left already.  I am bringing my friend here into this room to look at the new colour of eye shadow I am trying on my eyelids and the light is best in this room.  I am leaving in a few minutes on my vacation in another province I have never been to before and and I want to look my very best."  So, my little doctor, usually rather taciturn, not once ever hiding from me the fact that she never wanted to be a doctor, but was forced to become one by her family, my all of 5 foot nothing, cute as a bug doctor, was as jazzed about wearing make up for the first time in her 35 years of life as I have ever seen her about anything else.  Oh my gosh, if she had that level of enthusiasm for her career, she might actually be a good doctor!!!  hahahahaha  Well, she isn't a great  physician, but she is MY physician and today I enjoyed her immensely!  

What a crazy day! All kind of fun and games.  Other than battling the last minute Christmas shoppers at Canadian Tire tomorrow, it is going to be a pretty boring day in comparison!!


We're Having Christmas!!

Apparently my sister in law used to use that expression each childhood Christmas as she danced about in front of the family Christmas tree, quite delighted and excited by the fun and frolic of the season.  Her statement became a family expression passed down to succeeding generations of Christmas "enjoy-ers"!  

Yes, we are certainly "having Christmas" this week!  We began five days ago with the cousins' reunion lunch and what a lot of fun that was discussing ancestors, catching up on each other's lives and making plans to get together again before too many more months have passed.

My husband and I were each able to work in a couple of extra coffee visits with friends we don't get to see too often, it was a blast driving our new senior aquaintance to her dentist appointment....being helpful to someone for a change.  

Midweek I made a double batch of bison chili and did something I NEVER do: instead of taking a carton over to a couple of friends, I invited them to come here for dinner that same evening.  Meal based spontaneity? Moi?????  I didn't stop to worry about how much dust the guests might encounter, didn't stop to worry about "what if the chili doesn't turn out after all??", wasn't concerned about anything other than throwing together the rest of the meal before our friends arrived.  It was SO MUCH FUN!  I really need to do things like this more often.  Good grief....how much have I missed out on by refusing to even consider last minute invitations for most of my life thus far?  

Last night we ate dinner at the home of friends and truly felt like we had enjoyed our own family Christmas dinner for the first time since losing all of our extended family members.  There were yummy appetizers enjoyed with a bottle of champagne...just like being at my sister in law's for Christmas...there was scintillating conversation about all manner of topics, followed by the main meal: a fabulous tortiere...again what my sister in law liked to serve on Christmas Day once we all got past our life long turkey dinner fixation, delicious white Portugese wine, which would have appealed to my father, as would the delicious salad with oranges and pecans.  My mother would have truly loved the pumpkin soup with sour cream and peanuts and she would have gone into ecstasy over the creme brulet for dessert.  We could hardly believe it as our hostess continued to serve course after course that had wonderful memories of family connections for us. She had no idea we would be so touched by her choices as she didn't know our family traditions at all.  It was a wonderful evening! Merry Christmas to us!

This morning I had an early doctor's appointment and when I arrived home it was to find a my cloth Japanese Christmas decoration hanging up on the back door.  Hmmmm....wha?  We weren't planning to use our Christmas decorations this year in prepration for getting rid of them before we move.  My husband opened the door for me, huge grin on his face.  As I came into the dining room, there was our little Christmas tree, released from its box and partially decorated already. He decided to surprise me by decorating the suite. The stockings were hung and the table decorations were out of their boxes, waiting for me to place them around the living room.  Newly downloaded Christmas music was playing on his iPad, mostly older jazz arrangements of carols and songs and we waltzed around the living room, letting go of a lot of stress and anxiety.  What an absolutely wonderful morning!  Depression has been threatening to overtake me the past couple of days and I am realizing how often that happens in direct relationship to ingesting foods that set off the GERD....learning lots, therefore readjusting my diet once again as I learn new things about what sets the condition off.  

Now we look forward to Christmas Eve church service: I think we may to go an Anglican church this year to support a priestly colleague of my husband.  The service at our own church is a bit of a free for all each December 24th.  It is a well loved service for the mostly unchurched community around the church building and they show up in droves. It is fun to meet people and share the Good News of Christ's birth with those who really don't know a thing about it, but I think this year we may step away and do something more traditional.  On Christmas Day we are invited out for an early Christmas dinner, with the traditional yummy turkey.  It will be a chance to meet some more new people as the other guests are people we don't yet know.

Now I am hoping, selfishly, that no houses or condos that our realtor considers appropriate for us come on the market until after January 1st!  Dropping everything to go running about to showings is proving difficult for me right now.  There has been so much going on with medical appointments wedged in around showings and wondering if, after making social commitments, we are going to have to drop out last minute to go look at houses....I would appreciate a break over the holiday week if possible.  My husband and I have taken some time to revamp some of our initial ideas of what will work for us, so in the new year we can share those ideas with our realtor and see what she thinks.  It will all work out, but I feel I need a few consecutive days to get my head into the right space for house hunting!

Looks like we will be having a brown Christmas this year and that is just fine with me.  The weather here continues to amaze...and upset people who know that long term this lack of snow is very, very bad....but it is just how it is this year. May the spring rains somehow make up for the lack of winter moisture.

Hope your days heading into the Christmas weekend are peacefully and happily busy and that all your preparations go smoothly. Have a wonderful time, whatever you do during the holidays!

Tuesday, December 19, 2023

Nope, Not That House!

So, the realtor just called. The house we were to see tomorrow has apparently had an offer put in already and we are not up for a bidding war, knowing the current owner wants a 30 day maximum possession date. It was renovated beautifully and with so few bungalows on the market right now, it is no surprise it sold within hours. I am kind of relieved we don’t have to run around tomorrow after all, plus I truly believe the house was more than we need. Not the house for us, but the right house will appear at the right time…..this I know after over 40 years of experience trusting God with housing! Amen!!

Retirement: The Spice Of Life!

One of the greatest things about being retired is the wonderful variety of events we can participate in any day of the week, any time of the day, scheduled and completely spontaneous.  

On the weekend we had so much fun with our former parish in Moose Jaw at a variety show, some holy "horsing around" as it was advertised!  My husband decided to do his own take on a comedic bit about how to use expository preaching style to give a sermon on Little Bo Peep.  Others have done this, but he wanted to do his own and he was hilarious!!  Some of the other clergy in attendance were cracking up, so that certainly inspired and encouraged him. hahaha  There was everything from high comedy to low comedy to group singing to piano and cello and banjo numbers performed by professional musicians to poems and readings....it was a long but wonderful programme followed by amazing snacks in the church hall. So happy we were free to go with no worries about how late at night we arrived home since neither of us has to work in the mornings now.  The weather was perfect....clear skies, no snow, no ice....it was like driving on an autumn evening only a tad chillier outside.  

The next day, having no plans other than to start my ironing after my "BIG WASH" laundry on Saturday, we were taking our sweet time getting up, getting dressed and having breakfast, thinking we were going to just relax all day, when a call came in from a friend that a senior in her building, a former member of our church, was in need of a ride to the dentist and could we pick her up at noon please?  Happy to help.  What ensued was a pretty hilarious afternoon with this dear senior lady in her beautiful cowboy boots and a cane that could have been a great weapon in the hands of the barbarians of old!  She had no idea of the name of her dental clinic, nor did she know the address, other than it is on a particular street and she would recognize it by its green sign on the side of the building!  hahaha.  It took us a long time to get her settled comfortably in our car and my husband was a bit worried we would be late for the appointment, not knowing how easily we might or might not find the place.  He needn't have worried as it turned out.  We drove across half the city, including through what has to be the world's longest school zone, dodging jay walking students as they went racing across the road from the school to a snack filled convenience store, but eventually discovered the clinic with the green sign, not that far from the city limits!!  By this time we were nearly 5 minutes late for the appointment, so we had to hustle our new friend out of the car and over to the ramp up to the front door.  She suffers from serious vertigo, so we were grateful that beside her cane in one hand, she had a sturdy railing to hang onto with the other.  My husband went ahead of her so he could be a proper gentleman and open the door for her.  It was locked tight!  There were no lights on inside the clinic that we could see and only the presence of two cars in the staff parking gave us any hope that our friend even had an appointment set up.  She then told us that no, her appointment wasn't actually at the time she told us, it was a half hour later than that but she wanted to get there in plenty of time so she could get in right away. hahaha Back down to the car we all went, securing her back in her seat with some difficulty. Less than ten minutes later a staff arrived back at work to open the door and we went through the performance once again.  Technically the door should have been locked again for a few minutes, but the staff took pity on our friend and opened the waiting room for her.  They told us she would be ready to go home in 30 to 60 minutes, so we drove to the nearest library outlet and purchased a few books from the sale rack, went to the car wash so that our filthy black beast would once again resemble a vehicle fit for driving passengers and arrived back at the clinic 30 minutes later.  I waited inside for our friend and she appeared five minutes later.  Time for her to pay her bill....weeeeeeelllll, she had forgotten to bring her credit card and cheque book, wallet etc. etc., so after a good deal of conversation with the office manager an arrangement was finally made for her to write a cheque and mail it in from home.  We got her back down the ramp and gathered her into the car seat again for the drive home.  All the way there and back she regaled us with the most interesting commentary on the history of our city and of our church.  We discovered later on that there wasn't much truth to any of it, but it is how SHE remembers the past 45 years here in our city, and she certainly was interesting to listen to. She has, likely completely unwittingly, become a most interesting story teller!  Once we returned her to her  residence, a church operated apartment, she discovered she had left home without her keys as well, so we had to go searching for the buzzer for the building superintendent....who was momentarily away as it turned out!  Fortunately another resident who knew her finally came along past the front doors and let her into the building.  It was arranged that she could stay with another friend there until the superintendent returned later that afternoon to let her into her own suite and help her find her missing items.  What an afternoon....so happy we were around to assist the woman and to meet someone new who is no longer capable of coming to church services. Here is a woman I have prayed for at many a church prayer meeting but had no idea until yesterday who she is.  

We were completely exhausted by this time and both of our tummies were screaming for lunch.  We could easily have gone home and prepared something, but my husband has been anxious for a return visit to the Lancaster downtown and we were in the area, so......Aiii Yiiii....the prices in comparison to the amount of food on our plates was ridiculous. SO much money for such tiny portions.  It was our last trip there even though the food was wonderfully tasty and fresh.  Yes, even we have our limits on what we will pay for lunch for two.  As a result of the very late lunch I ended up eating my dinner at 8pm. My GERD however, is ready to be done with food by 7pm each day, so......not such a great reaction, but not horrible either.  Must continue to listen to my body's responses to meals and snacks and time of day!

Thanks to retirement schedules, my husband was able to accept a spontaneous invitation for coffee out with a friend this afternoon without it interfering with our attendance at a fabulous cousins' reunion lunch.  It has been 6 years I think since the last one and not all of the cousins are still alive, so it was a much smaller group.  We had so much fun together.  This is an event that needs to happen more often.  All of us are in different stages of life, some so busy they barely have time to do anything but work....it was wonderful to all be together again.

We were also free to tell our realtor that we can meet her tomorrow at a free standing house for a showing.  Judging by the photos, it is a bit too big for us, the upstairs is large enough on its own, but there is a finished basement as well....very large and in need of serious upgrades. However, it does have a free standing garage, a manageable sized outdoor property and the fixed monthly expenses are substantially lower than the condo we were tempted to put an offer in on...so, we will all learn more about our needs for housing at tomorrow's showing.  The house just came on the market today, so it is a good time to see it.

Loving the freedom to take life as it comes so much of the time.  Both of us are realizing afresh, especially after lunch with some very busy younger cousins, how much freedom we actually have and how very precious it is!

Saturday, December 16, 2023

Those Dratted Old Mental Tapes Keep Playing!

 What a struggle internally I have been having for the past few days over this house hunting business!  Our realtor knocked herself out toward the end of this week getting permission from a home owner to allow us in to see the most fabulous little condo we have seen thus far.  We do like it very much and appreciate all the work our realtor is going to for us.  We can afford to purchase it, although it is at the top of our price point and the list price may be dropping a bit soon.  However....can we really afford the monthly payments with enough left over to still save up for other joys in life like travelling to see our son more often for example?  The high property tax and condo fees mean we are not saving as much each month as we would really like to, so we are awaiting an estimation on the utility costs before we decide if and how to proceed.  The stress for me isn't a "should we buy this place or not" kind of stress as finances will make that decision for us. Nope, the stress is the playing of the old people pleaser tape in my brain....I am feeling more stressed about whether or not I am wasting the realtor's time  than I am about whether or not I should purchase the condo!!  How completely ridiculous is that, right????  This is what realtors do for a living....they risk showing people housing for possibly many months without knowing for certain a sale will be made.  They know what they are getting into. Our realtor has been doing this job for many years and is extremely experienced and qualified at her job.  Why am I worried about disappointing HER????  Aaaaaargh!!!!  I have been pretty free of this kind of stress for the past few decades, caving only in regard to my parents' wishes, but even there making good progress over the years. Now that they have passed I have been remarkably free of excessive need to please other people....until now.  Good grief!!!  I am having some serious prayer times to regain control of this nonsense.  It is so ridiculous, BUT anyone that has been trained as a child to want to please everyone but himself or herself is going to struggle with shutting off that tape buzzing around in the brain.  This morning I tried to go to my church women's breakfast but left not long after I arrived because my stomach was doing uncontrollable flip flops!  Aaaaargh....I am too old to have to feel like this!  So, Lord, please deliver me from this silliness!  Amen and thank you very, very much!  Fortunately our realtor takes weekends off, so I have a couple of days to get myself back under control.   Sigh....it is difficult to have to finish growing up at my age.  So grateful for my patient, comforting, helpful, realistic husband who is so opposite of me with these sorts of issues.

I continue to enjoy our lack of snow and appreciable amounts of ice as we approach Christmas.  This is the best winter I have experienced since our time in Tokyo in 2000/2001!  Love, love, love it!  Sorry planet earth. I know it is not a good sign for us to have so little moisture and spring and summer could be even more deadly for forest fires and drought that effects the crops as a result, but o wow...for this present moment all I am is grateful that the time spent with bitter cold air, piles of snow and thick scary ice is greatly reduced for now.  There is so much going on in my life right now that I feel like at least the weather has given me a break for a season.

There have actually been other happy things going on this week, despite our best efforts to have every afternoon tied up with house hunting!  hahaha  I enjoyed  both my coffee dates and yesterday my walking partner and I went to DarBar together for lunch. Oh my it was good. My friend has a limited menu of things she enjoys eating, but their butter chicken and saffron rice seemed to be a hit with her and I am so grateful she enjoyed it.  So often I have recommended a restaurant to someone and they have had a much less than positive experience there, sadly.  I so enjoyed my coconut pepper chicken lunch platter AND instead of the usual chana in my side dish there was my favourite, creamy dal makhani!!!  YAY!  Apparently I am allowed to request that now if I prefer it to the chana. Bonus!!  My husband had a painless and successful dental procedure yesterday.  I dropped off some supplies at our church this morning for the Saturday lunch programme and came home to finally get started on three weeks of laundry!!!!  YIPPEE!!!!  We received a phone call from a friend just as the first load went into the machine and now we have a dinner date one night next week.  We have a cousins' reunion as well next week and both my husband and I have coffee time visits. So, when my brain isn't spinning with real estate details, life is enjoyable and good and busy!  AMEN! Long may it continue.


Wednesday, December 13, 2023

For Once It Is A Good Thing To Have Too Many Clothes!!

 My husband and I are occasionally tempted to feel somewhat guilty for having the amount of clothing that we have.  We were so financially deprived for so many years, depending on thrift stores for everything we wore, that once we became more financially viable the temptation was to go eschew thrift store hand me downs and go just a tad crazy purchasing new.  After a couple of years of that we more reasonably started buying only what was necessary to replace the older "thriftys" that were wearing out.  This week we have been most grateful that most of the clothes we purchased during our major spending spree are still in good condition because I have been trying for a week now to do the laundry!!  This week I set aside three afternoons that I had free to get the washing done and all three afternoons have seen us rushing off with the realtor to view houses and condos.  hahaha

I was certain today would be the day for laundry, but by yesterday evening I knew I would be house hunting instead. Surely tomorrow afternoon would be THE TIME!  But....apparently not! hahaha  Right now we are waiting to hear from the realtor about a place she really wants us to see....tomorrow afternoon if she can arrange it. hahaha  We had a good talk today about scheduling and she doesn't usually work on Saturdays or Sundays, so Saturday just may turn out to be my laundry afternoon. As soon as I return from the church ladies' breakfast that morning I will be able to get to work! Lord willing and the "perfect place" doesn't open up the same day, as for the "perfect place" the realtor would happily give up her day off.....hahaha.....

At this afternoon's showing there was lots of time for us to ask the realtor more specific questions regarding closing costs and other details.  She had every answer right at her fingertips and we left the meeting with even more peace than we have had thus far....and we already had quite a bit of peace.  It was a good meeting. The place we looked at COULD be about third choice on our list and third only because it backs onto a huge open field where construction will begin in the spring on a massive commercial venture.  For two or three years or however long it takes to complete the building project, we would have gravel trucks and other construction vehicles racing past our back door and dust blowing EVERYWHERE all construction season long.  Apart from that it wasn't a bad place.  We could live with it in its current condition and with the existing appliances.  Slowly we are honing in on what we need and want. Hallelujah!

God bless my husband! After our long session with the realtor, followed by his realization that he was starving because he forgot to eat lunch, he decided that since we were already half way to Emerald Park, he would like to have an early dinner at Fancy Fork!  Who am I to say NO, right? hahahahaha  We arrived at 4pm and because they were not yet busy with dinner traffic we only had to wait a half hour for our meals to arrive at the table. Oh my gosh....so delicious as usual.  I had the charred Mediterranean salad with Greek herbed chicken again.  It is delicious, filling, and the presentation is so lovely.  My husband enjoyed the chicken penne with an extra side of asparagus.  Yum, yum, yum!  When we left at about 5:30pm to come home, the restaurant was just beginning to fill up, so the timing of our own visit was perfect.  As we drove home we watched the beautiful sunset, taking full advantage of the "big sky country" we are famous for here.  The orange and yellow spread all across the sky and it was lovely.  

So, now we are going to have a relaxing evening.  

My morning was wonderful as I had a long coffee visit with a friend and tomorrow morning I will coffee once again with another friend. My husband had a good news doctor's appointment this morning and tomorrow morning he will attend his reguarly scheduled retired ministers' meetings.  The following day my husband will complete his dental work and I will have lunch with my walking partner who I have not had an opportunity to see for weeks and weeks.  I LOVE retirement!!  So much more time to connect with other retired friends and also the leisure of being able to adjust my life in order to visit younger friends with jobs and parenting commitments at their available times.  It is quite a marvellous time of life in that regard.

Adding to our joy is the weather!  Today we hit a high of +6C and tomorrow will be similar.  The rest of the this week is looking good and the coolest daytime high should be about -1C....in mid December....on the prairies.  Oh yes, I know that climate change is likely responsible for this unusual weather and I should be freaking out about the dire straits we could soon be in here because of that, but I confess for right now I am just enjoying every second of it.  As I walked home (WALKED in DECEMBER) from my morning coffee visit there was actually pavement frost covering the streets and sidewalks wherever the direct sun was shining; pavement frost, the like of which we don't usually see until the earliest weeks of spring each year. Pavement frost? In December???  Wow!  Unheard of.....

Tuesday, December 12, 2023

When War Elsewhere Strikes Closer To Home

Only ten minutes prior to the start of our church Christmas concert this past Sunday evening, one of our pastors received devastating news from the Middle East.  She was contacted by good friends there to let her know that one of their relatives, who had been taken hostage the day of the raid on Israel by Hamas had just been discovered dead in a different location and a brother had also just been confirmed dead from the intial raid.  I felt so badly for the family and also for our pastor who only minutes later had to get up on a podium in front of a microphone and give the opening comments for our concert. I do not know any of these suffering people, but I know our pastor and how deeply effected she has been by this news.  I am not taking sides in other countries' wars and I am grieving with families on all sides of the conflict who have lost loved ones to yet another ultimately senseless war that may end up with more overall losses than gains for each side involved.  Sigh.....it is simply life on this planet, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't care about what is going on in the "Wonderful (sarcastic) World of War"....what a debacle wars and their escalations so often turn out to be.  Tragic times for our world.

Monday, December 11, 2023

Grocery Shopping Bonus!

 We dragged our sorry selves out of bed this morning after a rather late night of it at our church Christmas concert last evening.  It was an excellent programme and my husband did a great job as the narrator!

Off we went grocery shopping.  I knew it was going to be a huge load and I was right, as the total cost was well over three hundred dollars...that is just what happens when I don't feel like shopping until we are down to our last slice of bread....but what I didn't know is that the store we were at had a grocery give away for receipts over three hundred dollars.  We were able to take home a free Butterball turkey, a thirty-eight dollar freebie as it turned out and the turkey is just the right size for us!!  It fits in our little freezer without taking up the entire space. Yay!  Looking forward to a good feast one of these fine days.

We went to a few other stores for organic meat and Indian spices and then decided to go to one of our favourite little restaurant/pubs for lunch: The Rock. Alas, The Rock is no longer in business and there are large FOR LEASE signs in its windows.  We are so sorry. The food was excellent and the service wonderful.  Another business we loved bites the dust in our fair city.

We returned to a message from our realtor.  Later this afternoon we are going to view another house.  It was stripped down in 2018 and completely remodelled.  Looking at the photos the upstairs is perfect...EXACTLY what I want. The basement though is another story.  It is lovely as well, but there has had to be some bracing of the walls due to the high water table, a new sump pump has been installed and after building our first house on former swamp land, (even though we had no problems in the nearly 20 years we lived there), we know there could be ongoing issues with this house. With the basement finished my husband won't be able to inspect the concrete walls underneath. An engineer's report was done 5 years ago and if we are interested at all in the house we will have to see that....so, if I could find a house with the same type of newly renovated upstairs but with the basement unfinished, THAT would be my dream house. Even the square footage of this house is perfect! So, we shall see what transpires. It is a bit pricy, but so many improvements were done to it AND it is in a low crime neighbourhood, which is not that easy to find here....but higher property taxes....well....Lord it is up to you. Just show us what you want. Thank you and amen!

Sunday, December 10, 2023

More Goodbyes To Good Neighbours

We have enjoyed getting to know another of the Indigenous families in our complex over the past summer and autumn. Their six year old son loved chatting and his tiny sister was hilarious with her teensy weensy pigtails bobbing about. That girl had no idea how to walk. She ran full speed ahead at all times! We bumped into the family all over the neighborhood: at the park, the Science Center, the grocery store, so there were many opportunities to chat. Alas, they only had a six month lease and moved out a couple of days ago. A number of people we have been getting to know around here have moved away. The makeup of the complex is changing rapidly right now. The casual chats between neighbours on the lawns and back porches are coming to an end. So grateful the woman on the other side of our adjoining wall is so friendly and engaged. Community living is so much better when the neighbours want to take the time and effort to exchange a few friendly words together when the opportunity arises. 

Friday, December 8, 2023

My Husband Survived His Dental Appointment VERY WELL!! YAY!

 It has been a very good day for both of us!  This morning the platform for my new mattress arrived, as previously noted, so I spent some time today sitting on my mountain, getting used to the feeling of being so high off the floor after spending several years with a much lower platform under my old mattress, followed by having the new mattress right on the floor the past couple of weeks. After the platform was delivered I went online to check the prices of the various sizes wondering if, since a Queen size had been delivered erroneously two weeks ago, I had been charged for a Queen size instead of the smaller one I ordered.  Turns out I was charged for the correct size, so I won't have to return to the store to start bargaining to get a refund on the cost. Thank you Jesus!!

My husband did exceptionally well at the dentist this afternoon!  Thanks muchly to those of you who were praying for him!!  He explained his dizziness issue to the hygienist and dentist, so they didn't tip him so far back in the chair, and they also provided him with a wrap around neck pillow that made him very comfortable indeed!  Bless them both!  His procedure only took an hour instead of the hour and a half we were told to expect, so that was a bonus!  He walked out of the office afterward grinning like a Cheshire Cat! My, he was pleased with himself for doing so well....SO CUTE! hahaha  I knew he was worried all morning before we went, that it would be a tough appointment, so what a relief for him!

While my husband was at the dentist I wandered off to the Carl's Jr. nearby and ordered myself a burger and a drink. Oh my....I did eat a few too many carbs, but it was so delicious!  I didn't realize the burger I ordered had two meat pattys inside that very nice bun, so I was REALLY full by the time I was done eating it. So glad for the amount of lettuce, tomato, onion and pickle. So glad too for ONLY a bit of  their special mayo, instead of having a bun turning to smoosh due to all the ketchup and mustard I get at other burger joints.  After eating that giant burger and gulping down the huge drink, I knew I needed to get some exercise immediately!  The sidewalk between the restaurant and the dental office and beyond was clear of snow for several blocks, so away I went, ignoring the blustery, biting wind, working off those extra carbs with great gratitude for the lack of snow and the iceless sidewalks!  I barely returned to the car when my husband appeared all set to go and get a burger himself!  He chose A&W as it was on the way home.  He felt he certainly deserved a burger treat too since he was celebrating a successful dental appointment.  I agreed!

Our son phoned us tonight!  We had a great visit and learned more about his successful and fun trip to Miami.  He said the art fair seemed kind of slow this year, far fewer buyers and observers than in previous years, so he is extremely grateful that he made some sales. Since his job is currently in jeopardy, he is hoping it won't be too many more weeks/months before he is paid for his paintings so he has some backup if he has to seek other employment in the new year.  He is very glad he went. Beside the sales, he made some possibly important new contacts.  He is quite delighted that one of his paintings sold to a New York collector, so it will be returning to his current home city and will be on display there....very nice indeed.  With three shows in less than six months and some good publicity writeups he shouldn't have too many problems with his next visa renewal....depending of course on what happens with the US elections next year.  He is so excited about seeing us in Vancouver next year. hahaha  That makes us feel good.  We are discussing a few things we might do together there.  

A friend from Vancouver Island also phoned tonight.  By the time our conversation was done we had made arrangements to meet while we are in BC. They will take the ferry over to the mainland and meet us for lunch and a good long visit.  YAY!  Love it when plans come together!

We continue to think and rethink and pray and muse and discuss our hoped for move this coming spring....our heads could be spinning round and round if we let them, but instead of allowing ourselves to get all caught up in the frustration and confusion surrounding this move currently, we will continue to just pray and seek and wait on the Lord to point us in the right direction. That brings us the most peace.  So relieved it is NOT all up to us.

Tomorrow morning I am going to a "pop up" art show an artist friend of mine is involved in. That will be a lot of fun.  I just have to remember to return the car in time for my husband's gig as St. Nicholas at one of his fellow priest's churches.  There is an Advent event for the parishioners and neighourhood folk.  My husband is really looking forward to it.  I will stay home and do laundry....it seems like I just did laundry a few days ago, but the moutain of clothes needing cleaning is almost as high as my bed!!  Yikes!!  How does this happen anyway?

On Sunday morning I will try to just grin and bear it as we sing Christmas songs during the Advent season.  We partly adhere to the Advent practise with the seasonal Advent readings from the Scriptures, lighting the candles on the Advent wreath in the proper order and the minister preaching on the appropriate Advent topics, but as we sit in the pews we are looking at the decorated Christmas tree and other Christmas ornaments, singing Christmas carols in amongst the Advent carols and it is so very confusing to my husband and I.  As soon as the new year arrives, instead of singing the carols during the Christmas season of the church calendar year, starting on Christmas Eve and on up until Epiphany, all the Christmas carols and decorations at our church will disappear by New Years and we will be confused all over again.  We give huge props to our ministers who slowly began working Advent into our church practise a couple of years ago and decided wisely to pick their battles as the change is brought about...music is one battle they have fought only partially successfully, but even that has started a slow change. Bless their hearts!!! They are trying, they are trying. Lord, may you grant them even more success in the years to come.


From The Mountain Top!

I am sitting on my bed writing this. My new platform for the mattress arrived this morning and after having the mattress flat on the floor for over a week, this legged platform has raised the mattress so much higher I feel like I am rather close to the ceiling in comparison!  hahaha This will take some getting used to fer shur! hahaha

In other news, a friend who was here yesterday asked me for my almond cake recipe….imagine….someone asking ME for a recipe for baking! It’s a miracle!!!! Wow!

Gun Culture

Our son lives in the midst of a gun oriented culture that he simply does not understand. So, on his recent trip he decided to make an attempt to try to figure out what the big thrill over guns is all about. He went to a shooting gallery and tried out an army issue rifle as well as a submachine gun. He sent us a photo of himself, gun in hand, looking like a fish out of water! hahaha His obvious outward gentleness clashed with the terrifying looking gun he was cradling. He described the experience as “interesting but banal.”  Growing up in Canada the only guns he ever saw were some hunting rifles at the rural homesteads where some of his friends lived. It was an interesting experience for his parents too, seeing him holding a gun…not a picture we could have ever imagined, but we are glad he took the time to investigate the culture in this small way. Even limited knowledge could prove helpful the the future.

Holy Hanukkah!!!!

 It has been a happily busy couple of days.  

Yesterday I spent the whole day at home, taking my time to clean our suite thoroughly while my husband had a morning filled with ministry meetings.  It felt good to be able to take my time and enjoy the cleaning process.

This morning while my husband had a productive time with his political discussion group I took my friend from church out for our weekly coffee time visit.  We seem to have a lot to discuss from week to week, so we never run out of things to talk about.  For some reason our huge mugs of steamed 2% with sugar free vanilla and caramel flavourings tasted particularly good.  Brewtopia was not very busy this morning so we had lots of privacy to talk and didn't have to holler across the table at each other in order to be heard.

The forecast freezing rain and snowfall did not materialize. Hallelujah!!!!  The forecast changed around lunch time, so when our fellowship group arrived for our afternoon of discussion everyone was rejoicing that they would not have to fight with icy streets as they returned home.  Yesterday evening I baked an almond cake and what was supposed to be a banana loaf to serve the group today, but I realized too late that I didn't have a sufficient number of bananas. So, fortunately I discovered a small can of tinned peach slices I had forgotten was in the cupboard, diced up the peaches and used them instead.  It turned out SO WELL....everyone seemed to like it, so that was encouraging to this non-baker!  We seriously considered FINALLY purchasing a coffee maker, for the first time ever, but thought better of it a couple of days ago and purchased a large glass coffee carafe instead.  Before our group arrived my husband took the carafe up the street to the Naked Bean coffee house so they could fill the carafe with coffee for him to bring home.  It was unbelievably inexpensive!!  Our company certainly did enjoy whatever coffee blend was in that carafe! YAY!

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We received a couple of happy emails from our son today. He had a wonderful time at the Miami Art Fair and was on his way to the airport home early this evening.  He sent a couple of photos, including one of his smiling face and thumbs up as he stood beside an art collector who purchased one of the two paintings he sold there.  YAY!!!  A new collector for him, sales, sunshine, the chance to meet other artists and dealers, a happy overnight accommodation spot, great food....AND home in time for the first night of Hannukah to enjoy with his girlfriend as they light the first candle of her mother's menorah tonight.  The photos he sent from Florida are wonderful because he looks so relaxed and happy.  In one of them he mimicked a photo we have of his dad standing under the Florida palm trees back in 1974!   Fun!  His dad had a good chuckle over that.  Apparently there are more photos to be sent to us this weekend, so we look  forward to seeing them.

Next week there are two latke parties he and his girlfriend will be attending, so, as she wrote to us today, the "spirit of Hanukkah" is strong this year in their lives. hahaha  At Christmas they like to attend either St. Patrick's or St. John's Cathedrals, or both, to listen to the wonderful music of the Christmas season.  

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 My husband has a couple of cousins here that he rarely gets to see, but next week we are planning a Cousin's Brunch at a restaurant.  We are so excited to see them again.  We have not had a Cousin's Brunch in 5 years and since then several of the cousins have died, so it will be a very small group of 3 cousins and t heir partners this time.  It will be wonderful to reconnect. YAY!

It appears we will be having our Christmas KFC on Boxing Day after all.  My morning coffee buddy and her husband want us to come to their place for lunch on Christmas Day....he will cook some of his delicious Chinese food.  LOVE LOVE LOVE having friends of other ethicities and cultures who like to cook for us! hahaha

Tomorrow my husband has a dental appointment to start work on his first ever crown.  Please, if you think of it prayer partners, send up a prayer for him.  He gets SO dizzy from being turned nearly upside down in the dental chair that I am worried he will be really ill by the time the 90 minute session is over.  I am going to go with him so I can drive him home afterward.  After I drop him off I will head over to the nearest restaurant and have my lunch to use up some of the time, but will return in plenty of time to pick him up.  Poor guy!  I pray he will not dread returning the next week for the permanent crown because it is such a nothing of an appointment in comparison to the intial work.  Lord have mercy upon him!!

 

Tuesday, December 5, 2023

Christmas Dinner 2023….All Decided! Yay!

My husband and I started talking about what we want to have for our Christmas dinner this year. It took us all of three seconds to decide: Kentucky Fried Chicken with gravy!! Yes, I am totally serious! 

KFC here will likely be closed on Christmas Day so we will either have our fatty, greasy, oily treat on Christmas Eve or Boxing Day. We get to be happily alone this Christmas and we want to do something silly, different and fun without having to cook anything, so our once a year KFC extravaganza will be at Christmas. 🎄 Happiness! 😉👍

Thirty years ago I had a stomach ulcer so of course eating anything greasy was verboten, but for weeks the only food that would settle my stomach was KFC chicken and gravy. So, I think by Christmas, if I remain vigilant about keeping to my GERD diet, I can get away with a couple of pieces of fried chicken and gravy. And if I suffer for it instead, oh well!  

Today we visited a couple of places that are for sale here: stand alone condos. Neither of them were places our agent thought we should consider buying, but it was a great way for us to sort out what we really want and how much we are prepared to pay to get it. Listening to us talk, she came up with some other possibilities to consider over the coming weeks, so it was a productive afternoon.  The one place is in a gated community….high property taxes and I felt hemmed in, trapped….ugh! I am so claustrophobic that even a gated community is too penned in for me!! hahaha 

Tomorrow is house cleaning day.  My husband has some ministry commitments so I will have the house to myself long enough to get it ready for our fellowship group who meet here the next afternoon. Yay!

Monday, December 4, 2023

Moving Next Year Just Got Real!!!

It snowed about 8cm down upon us very early this morning. Blah!!  However, minimal shovelling was needed by the time we left home at 10:30am because the temperature was rising sufficiently to begin melting the snow.  While there is still lots of the white stuff out there on the ground and streets, along with a bit of bumpy ice underneath on the roads, the temperature has been pleasant all day, not much of a wind blowing and the sunshine all afternoon has been lovely.  Despite the slush splattering all over our vehicle as we drove, it was a good day for running errands.

Our first errand was a meeting with a wonderful realtor who we like very, very much. She was recommended to us by several friends and we are happy we listened to them.  There is no suitable inventory right now for us, but tomorrow we are going to see a couple of places somewhat similar to what we want even though she is not recommending us to purchase either of them. This will be the visit where all 3 of us will get a better idea of what exactly we want to purchase in the new year....although she had our number pretty quickly. Her honesty about the present condition of some of the places that are for sale has made us trust her that she will try hard to get as close to what we need as she can.  She has a lead on a place that may come up for sale in the new year that is an area of the city we would probably enjoy living in and we came away with hope that she will do her best to sell us something suitably close to what we are hoping to get if at all possible.  Her assurances that it could take a few months and we should not let that bother us, that she is fine to take as long as we need to take, relieved me of some of the unnecessary stress I have been dealing with since we made the appointment.  Bless her!  I am glad we have dealt with real estate agents in the past and that we have friends in other places who are agents themselves. It helps us understand some of the catch phrases used and what they actually mean.

From there we went to a passport photography shop for our renewal passport photos.  Wow....we certainly are aware that it has been 10 years since our last passports were issued.  At that time the photographer in our town of residence still had to process the photos and call us a few days later to come and pick them up when they were ready.  Today we felt like dinosaurs as we waited exactly 4 minutes for the photos. The entire process from entering the store to having the photos taken, to paying for them and leaving, took less than 10 minutes!  Wonderful!  Love the new technology!  Tonight we will print off the renewal forms from the website and tomorrow we will start phoning around for a place to make an appointment where we can get the new ones within a week or two if possible.  Mailing everything to Ottawa will take a long time for a return of the new passports and if we have made even the simplest mistake on our forms, we will have to rewrite them and begin the process again.  I would rather have to make two trips to an "in shop" appointment than wait for mailed documents that could go missing in transit. Mailing documents this close to government Christmas week closures is also not appealing. Anyway, we shall see how it goes.  The next two weeks are so busy with various appointments, mostly medical and dental, care groups etc. Crazy! We will have to slot passport appointments in between.

Stupidly I was so euphoric after meeting with the real estate agent and getting our photos so quickly and easily that I forgot I needed to eat lunch.  My husband fortunately realized the time and told me we were going to the nearest restaurant for lunch because he didn't want either the diabetes or the GERD to act up due to me being late eating.  Bless him!  It could have been 6am or midnight for all I knew at the time.  We ended up quite happily at Bushwakkers:  fish 'n' chips for my husband and a giant taco salad for me.  We enjoyed every bite.  This is the first time I have eaten any sort of spicy food since the GERD diagnosis and I am so impressed that I had no reaction of note.  I will stay away from hotly spiced foods now for a week or two and not push my luck.

We were home early enough for me to contact a friend I was supposed to visit tomorrow afternoon, when we are now going to be running around the city with the real estate agent, and arranged to go to see her today instead. We haven't had a decent visit in several weeks, so it was quite a treat to spend time together. She is no longer able to cut her own fingernails due to a wrist mobility issue, so I gave her the manicure, the best that I am capable of and she seemed happy enough with my work. Whew!!!  It has been AGES and AGES since I last did eldercare and had to perform such duties for my clients.  Glad it went fairly well.

Perhaps I will sleep well again tonight.  I think I was subconsciously fretting about our meeting with the real estate agent. I woke up at 3am from a bad dream, absolutely certain I was getting conjunctivitis...must have been part of the dream because, upon checking in the mirror, my eyes were and still are just fine.  hahahaha Nutsy cuckoo, eh?  Here's hoping for a better sleep tonight, Lord willing.

Sunday, December 3, 2023

My Favourite Quote Of The Day

 "When your heart speaks, take good notes."

--Judith Campbell


An Eerie Little Coincidence, hahaha!

 A few minutes ago I was reading about some of the fallout after the intial removal of the Taliban from Pakistan/Afghanistan in the early 2000's.  Just as I began reading about American bombers flying over certain regions of Afghanistan, I heard a deep rumble coming from the sky outside my window that became almost frighteningly loud.  It was two Canadian military jets flying overhead....some sort of training exercise I assume as there is a base not that far from here.  I admit it kind of spooked me to be reading about fighters jets in Afghanistan just as Canadian military jets flew right over my residence.  Yikes!

 

The Disaster that Is War:

     "Our earth is wounded. Her oceans and lakes are sick; her rivers are like running sores.  The air is filled with subtle poisons. And the oily smoke of countless hellish fires blackens the sun. Men and women, scattered from homeland, family, friends, wander desolate and uncertain, scorched by a toxic sun....

     In this desert of frightened, blind uncertainty, some take refuge in the pursuit of power.  Some become manipulators of illusion and deceit.  

If wisdom and harmony still dwell in this world, as other than a dream lost in an unopened book, they are hidden in our heartbeat.

     And it is from our hearts that we cry out. We cry out and our voices are the single voice of this wounded earth.  Our cries are a great wind across the earth."

--from The Warrior Song of King Gezar